Love is not always all colors, brightness, and butterflies. It comes with its brutal truths which, we all ignore to listen because we know, it will hurt like head hurts when it gets hit by the rock. Now, it is time to face some of the truths, it will pinch, but it is necessary to show the mirror to the people.
Very recently, I had a conversation about relationships with an 18 year old girl and her definition of love made me realized she is living in a fantasy, which only exists in movies. She had no idea about the real struggles behind the success of great love stories.
Lust and love are two different things and sometimes, people fall into the trap of lust and name that as "love".
In love, no drama happens as they show in movies, like, hair would fly in the air, you will smile without any reason and then suddenly you will get that person magically. No, in real life, you have to earn that person's love by proving it and, mark my words; you will have to go through many hardships, tears, and heartbreak.
People feel embarrassed and weird to ask for sex directly so they take the easy road and start it with naming this as "love" then they ask for sex…
In the initial days of "love", everything would be fancy like, talking on the phone for hours or messaging in every few minutes, but soon, once the relationship would get little old, things would not be the same. Yes, the spark would not be the same.
Ditching is no big deal because once a person is bored of that relationship or is tired of working on that relationship to make it everlasting, a person would ditch, but we are not saying, every person is same exceptional cases do exist.
Partners do lie about various things and sometimes sharing is a myth. Partners don't share everything and anything.
On some days, you will regret coming into the relationship because getting into the one is easy but maintaining that relationship requires sacrifices.
Every couple goes through the phase of developing misunderstandings and that's where the test begins for true love and loyalty. Solving those misunderstandings would like, walking on the fire.
BABU SHONA BABY would only sound nice for the first few months, then every heart would demand space and privacy.
Jealousy comes with the package while in a process of loving someone. So, don't feel shocked when you or your partner feels jealous of someone or something. It is normal in relationships.
You will hear, "I can't live without you" or "I love you" from many people, but they all won't be permanent because, kids, in a relationship love is not enough, though it is important but it comes with other things, complimentary and you have to make other things work.
Last, it is hurtful, but truthful, finding the right partner won't be easy. You will have few heartbreaks, a tired a soul and an overthinking mind, but in the end, you will find that right person. You need to be patient.
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