Have you ever felt your heart skip a beat right after seeing someone? Like You're sitting at a cafe or a club or college library, near your house, when you notice a man whose good looks left you bewildered? And you feel like talking to them, flirting with them??
But, since approaching a stranger, breaking the ice and starting the conversation can be an extremely hard task by itself. Let alone the added pressure of making it known that you're interested.
It gets more difficult for the people who are shy and introverted!!
Don't worry? I will be your wing-writer for today and help you to get your man!!
Flirting is craftsmanship many of us know, many don't. Let's be true to ourselves, flirting is healthy work, not at all bad habits if the intentions are perfectly genuine and pure. Chemistry depends on the strange alchemy of a place and chance.
Guys should approach first, Hmm naa! That's an old school thought, I wonder who would come out with that idea. Cause if we stuck on this idea we might lose many nice guys in our life? Am I right?
Come on Girl, just stand up and introduce yourself with confidence, even if they're not interested. Consider it a practice run. Since, It's not easy for many to talk to strangers. Trust me everyone needs practice for this. If it clicks, then when you start flirting he will flirt back. So keep practicing!!
Guys love those who are happy and full of positivity. Especially those who smile and laugh when in a conversation, this gives guys confidence about themselves. Don't be loud, arrogant, or rude amid conversation. No matter if you are super-hot or attractive
Men usually step back with rude and arrogant girls.
Don't overspill your beans!! During a conversation try to have a small talk. Don't be in a rush, or tell everything about your past in a go. It will bore him and he will eventually lose interest in you.
So, just relax and have a good time with him!!
Hearing is one thing, but hearing is extremely important. We hear lots of things, but we listen only to those which matter to us.
Thus, during your conversations, ask more of him, like about him, his life, what does he do? Any type of questions, and acknowledge them. This shows that you are genuinely interested in him. You've already finished the hard part by getting this conversation started, now keep it going.
Everyone loves to be complimented!!
Once the conversation starts, be playful and sincere, and give them compliments. Not overtly sexual ones, this is the stage where you'd call someone "cute," not "sexy" (Don't create an embarrassing situation). Compliment him about his hair, shoes, clothes choice that all keep it simple and natural. The word is an instant signal that communicates your interest without being too forward.
This one is the most important part, from casual flirting to long-term romance, depending on gaze. It's one of the most primal and intimate things humans do, which is why so many of us avoid it.
You know what? It may confuse him or make him feel awkward, but deep eye contact and a happy smile will definitely leave him weak in his knees.
You must have heard about playing hard to get. I believe it generally means to have a short but memorable conversation rather than one that drones on forever until you both are looking for the next opportunity.
Plus, men like women who have an air of mystery about them.
In our fast-paced world, rude people don't get second chances. Most of us create snap opinions from interactions that last only a few seconds. No one knows that you're having a bad day, if you're rude, they likely won't try to talk to you again.
Many of us have a very bad habit of checking phones for every beep of notifications. Please make it a thumb rule!! Avoid checking phones or calls. Unless it's very important. This irritates everyone. So, do yourself a favor, and don't let your phone be a crutch or inhibit you in a place where you're supposed to be sociable and meet people.
You know guys love it when women run their hands through their hair during conversations. Now don't ask us why, but guys are admirers for great hair. So, the next time you're in the middle of a conversation, just run your hands through your hair to show off your confidence or tuck your hair behind your ears with your fingers to show off your sexy cuteness. But whatever you do, it'll only make a guy's jaw drop in awe.
Physical touch is the most important way to communicate interest to someone of the opposite sex. You wait for cues someone has to give you a "fuck yes." Don't worry, it doesn't have to be creepy. Keep it simple. Like while dancing with you, touch his arm, shoulder or hands to make a point or casually, while you are laughing. This tiny gesture will indicate you're interested in him as more than a friend. If he returns the gesture, you're on the right path. There are many nonverbal ways of giving someone consent. If you're not sure, hold off and let them lead.
The majority of guys open up more and feel more comfortable to talk to the girl or flirt with her.
Goodbyes are the last but the important part of every conversation trusts me on this. The majority of the goodbye, decides your next meeting. So, before leaving, shake his hand if you're comfortable, give him a quick hug.
Tell him it was nice to meet him and that you'd like to do it again.
Using these tips will definitely help you to keep you out of "The Friend Zone" which, believe me, is very dangerous territory and you don't want to be there. Just keep it short but make yourself memorable. Everyone likes a woman who is self-confident enough to make the first move. And believe me, he's going to be glad you did!
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