Initiate things with a stranger are a challenge but for introverts, it can be a panic attack. Introverts are already too shy and uncomfortable in meeting strangers and when it comes to meet a stranger in the context of dating, it can be spine chilling and frightening. In a situation like these, introverts usually ignore to date anyone, thinking that they might embarrass themselves or the other person.
If you are an introvert and also having troubles in making the first move then you have landed on the right page.
Don't try to change your appearances; don't think about your hair or your clothes. Be yourself and be real.
You don't have to feel self-conscious, no new pairs of shoes or new outfit will make you any different.
Introverts feel most comfortable with their close friends, so when you meet a stranger, first try to be friends with them. In this way, you would feel secure and homely and with time you will gradually move to the next level, the level of "more than friends".
Introverts find it difficult to sit with people for more than their specific time, so in the beginning start with short dates. Make plans with a short time frame.
Pick a place for dates, which would make you, feel relaxed and chilled. Introverts generally feel more secured with familiar surroundings, so choose a place where you feel at home.
Tell your extrovert friends to play cupid. Tell them to help in making a conversation with the opposite sex. Friends are best at playing the cupid.
Ask them questions and try to maintain the conversation by keeps speaking.
Practice a little before making a big move. Try not to let your nervousness comes in between, be vocal and expressive. Practice in front of a mirror or with a friend.
Don't expect instant spark between you two. Take your time to turn your relationship into a relationship with extreme chemistry.
Try to date another introvert because in this way you don't have to worry about being extrovert only because to make your extrovert partner feel comfortable.
Find a common hobby or interest, which you both can enjoy together. You will bond better in comparison to having sat down dates.
There are the times when a partner wants to go for parties or socializing, in these situations you have to make a compromise and try to make yourself comfortable with all of their plans.
If you feel the love then say it. Feel expressive about your feelings and tell your partner about what you feel about them. Introverts, spice things up.
Don't hide about being introvert. Be straight about it and proud too.
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