Feelings When Your Dating Relationship Turns Into Marriage

Date: 2019-06-04 13:03:04

By Ritika

Imagine this situation where you've been dating someone since a decent amount of time and you know that it is the person for you - the person you want to spend your life with, and suddenly, that happens. The dating relationship, the dinners and Netflix and chill sessions are taking a turn of a life-long commitment.

Now that might initially give you some jitters, but the exhilaration of this happening is uncontrollable. The excitement to finally fully call them yours, to share a life with them is just plain amazing and the feelings you get are a mixture of so many things.

"We finally made it together even. Remember the disagreements, arguments and fights?"

Those 500 messages long arguments or those days of not talking and those friends who came to sort things out between you guys is finally going to pay off. It wasn't because you wanted to rip each other's hair, well, maybe kind of at that moment (jk!) but it was only the love tha dominated and now you're going to spend the rest of your life with the love of your life.

"Now we won't have to sneak from our parents, because now we all are going to be one big family."

No more of "Mumma, I'm at Ria's house. "Haan mummy, bas market mein hoon, aa raha hoon. Their mom is going to be your mom too now and the two families will finally be able to see why you fell in love in the first place, what you actually saw in them.

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"We are actually going to build a home, together"

You might have changed houses all your life, but now you're going to build a home together with your partner and make it into something you've always wanted- full of comfort and love!

"Even though we know everything about each other, we're now going to learn to love the bad parts too!

Living with someone isn't such an easy affair. Knowing that they throw the banana peels on the ground instead of the bin, that they like to sleep with the lights on and hygiene is not a word in their dictionary are some very difficult things to deal with but a little twist and bend here and there is going to set everything right and you're going to learn every part of them.

"We're going to do all those things that I earlier used to see only in Instagram posts"

Waking up next to them, making food together, having movie nights at home, getting a pet together - all of those things that you wished earlier are going to come true now, the Instagram posts are going to become your reality now.

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"Make a list and travel the whole world together."

You start making a list of all the places you're going to visit together, whether it's an hour away from your location, or years away- you start seeing a future together.

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"We're going to besties."

The transformation from friends to lovers to best friends to companions is very important and slowly, you learn to be their everything. When you come across this turn in your relationship, you start imagining doing everything together, from gaming to having shots to ordering food in your pajamas- everything.

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"Cherish your old memories"

At this moment, you start thinking about everything you've ever done together, everything that you've done for each other and you become just so excited to share a life with someone you love so dearly, someone who deserves all of it.

Transforming from 'in a relationship' to 'married' is as difficult as it sounds and takes a lot of effort and patience. But also, it is magical in its own sense and if you have someone who loves you so much, you are very lucky!

"It will come when your heart is ready to carry it!

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